I've decided that I am not going to relax my hair just yet. At the back of my mind the thought will remain but for now I will no be doing so. I had a good talk with a friend who is natural and she suggested that I level my hair off to one length and use a protective style like singles braids. Now giving my hair a cut is no problem to me. So hopefully in a months time I will start wearing single braids or rather twist extensions. I know i will have to be careful with my hairline.
Its such a shame I have so many products I will not need. Some need to be thrown out so I will be doing that the moment I sort my hair out.